tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post6970757078628284466..comments2023-07-18T16:22:58.757+01:00Comments on Mike's Blog: Body issuesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-74450719730931281022009-03-14T15:28:00.000+00:002009-03-14T15:28:00.000+00:00That's really funny!That's really funny!Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07084142428197402563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-3598480181350452152009-03-11T20:08:00.000+00:002009-03-11T20:08:00.000+00:00body shape. I've been all over the place. I once l...body shape. I've been all over the place. I once looked at photos taken 2 weeks before and didn't recognise myself. I thought that I, swimming in the pool, was my friend on the same holiday. I was 10.5 stone, looking super thin which was really gaunt, and tanned. I just didn't recognise me and when I realised it was me I realised I'd gone too thin.<BR/><BR/>That was after long term relationship 1 finished and I was fitness, fitness, fitness.<BR/><BR/>So I guess I'm saying I was smaller, much smaller, but I wasn't comfortable.<BR/><BR/>No doubt, if you hadn't been thrown by this coment, you would have retorted, <BR/><BR/>-and I thought you'd be bigger<BR/><BR/>-you mean taller?<BR/><BR/>-no penis. Now fcuk off [door closes with a bang]<BR/><BR/>ahojMadeInScotlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16565114264116867519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-87167625341592206952009-03-09T23:36:00.000+00:002009-03-09T23:36:00.000+00:00Ofcourse darling, efforts HAVE to be made!Hugs,Ant...Ofcourse darling, efforts HAVE to be made!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/><BR/>Antony xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-7130469069751401242009-03-08T22:15:00.000+00:002009-03-08T22:15:00.000+00:00Ha, yes, Brick wall/Head co-ordinator should be pa...Ha, yes, Brick wall/Head co-ordinator should be part of my job description I think!! But you are right, of course. These things take time, and are rarely easy I think. But the effort must be made.<BR/><BR/>Thanks xMikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07084142428197402563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-44277082000798069242009-03-08T22:11:00.000+00:002009-03-08T22:11:00.000+00:00Mike, I have not seen a picture of you and do not ...Mike, <BR/><BR/>I have not seen a picture of you and do not know what you look like. <BR/><BR/>But it is my experience that dating and indeed sexual incounters can make you feel both good about your body and not good about your body.<BR/><BR/>Mr. Right has to <B>accept you for who you are</B>. And indeed Mr. Right should love your body.<BR/><BR/>You are half way there, being comfortable looking in the mirror at your body. You, in my humble opinion need to now work towards self love.<BR/><BR/>It sounds like you feel like your hitting your head against a brick wall at times on the dating/men front. <BR/><BR/>One of my good friends once said, <I>"If you feel like your hitting your head against a brick wall, your probably making progress and don't realise it."</I><BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/><BR/>Antony xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com