tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post5924033685408681752..comments2023-07-18T16:22:58.757+01:00Comments on Mike's Blog: Pondering.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-84756668757669125682008-08-04T22:06:00.000+01:002008-08-04T22:06:00.000+01:00your blog is like a fabulous twist on sex and the ...your blog is like a fabulous twist on sex and the city. i love, love, love it!!JVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00006468006781035459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-78535461142955834992008-06-12T00:06:00.000+01:002008-06-12T00:06:00.000+01:00I have to agree with pinkexpat - once I've been on...I have to agree with pinkexpat - once I've been on a few dates with a guy and I like him, I tend to go exclusive. <BR/><BR/>The funny thing is, when it's the right person that you're with, it's not a big sacrifice. Despite all the fun you've been having (and it sounds like lots and lots of fun!), if Mark is the right one, all the sex in the world can't make up for being in a committed honest relationship with a fab guy like him. <BR/><BR/>But at the end of the day, only you know if he's the right one, or if you still need to play around. <BR/><BR/>Whatever the case, please keep us updated! :-)<BR/><BR/>Big hug!Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-79367270305204181502008-06-11T19:19:00.000+01:002008-06-11T19:19:00.000+01:00Dates/potential boyfriends tend to be like London ...Dates/potential boyfriends tend to be like London buses in my experience - you have a long period of nothing and the suddenly a couple come along at once. I am someone who knows what I want - a monogamous relationship. So I never feel comfortable about "parallel dating". After a few dates, I feel I need to make a decision and only continue with one guy. <BR/><BR/>You state that he knows that you will be sleeping with someone else - but do you really know what he really FEELS about this? If it were me, and I had made it clear that I was only looking for a monogamous relationship, then after <BR/>our 3rd or so date together I would want to have THAT talk.<BR/><BR/>But if you are not "sure this is going somewhere" when you have this talk, then it will not be an easy decision to make. I have been around the block countless times with many men, so my sleeping-around phase is long gone, but if you have not been in a serious ltr, then you may not know what you MAY be turning down.<BR/><BR/>I wish you luck whatever your decision.<BR/><BR/>P.S. I have just started a blog, so take a peek if you want.Seksualiteithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04406851613395210760noreply@blogger.com