tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post1504703536553602023..comments2023-07-18T16:22:58.757+01:00Comments on Mike's Blog: SecretsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-8348245837459259842009-07-23T21:08:44.926+01:002009-07-23T21:08:44.926+01:00Funny for someone so angst ridden usually, but I g...Funny for someone so angst ridden usually, but I genuinely had forgotton till looking at the comments here tonight. I'm totally fine with it - for now - and it seems not to matter at all. <i>Reward Please</i>!!Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07084142428197402563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-28469211728574599172009-07-21T09:55:54.031+01:002009-07-21T09:55:54.031+01:00Yeah I suppose your right. However you definitatel...Yeah I suppose your right. However you definitately have more self control than me, I'm impressed.<br /><br />Hugs,<br /><br />A xAntonyhttp://www.antonysimpson.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-52365852760483517562009-07-21T09:43:54.945+01:002009-07-21T09:43:54.945+01:00I'd ask him. Do you know for certain that it w...I'd ask him. Do you know for certain that it was with another guy? It could have been. A. Girl.<br /><br />Oh dear, this isn't turning out the way I planned!<br /><br />A few years back I attended a course on assertiveness. I think what they'd have said was that if it's something that's going to bother you on a constant, ongoing basis then you have every right to ask the question. Have a gracefull 'bottom line' position in mind, though.<br /><br />For example, your bottom line could be that you don't need to know right now, but you need to put it out there that it's an imminent discuussion point.<br /><br />Another bottom line would be that if he doesn't tell you then you'll take a break.<br /><br />Or anything inbetween. <br /><br />As humans, we often fixate on small things, blowing them out of all proportion when really they're no big deal. If you at least get the conversation started then you're moving forwards.<br /><br />Just my opinion based on very few facts!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-25410205251943233182009-07-20T20:27:07.313+01:002009-07-20T20:27:07.313+01:00Yeah, Frumpella has a pyromaniac side!
I was tem...Yeah, Frumpella has a pyromaniac side! <br /><br />I was tempted to ask, that's for sure, but I think it would have been fruitless and only led to a row. He'll tell me, or he won't. It hardly matters to <i>our</i> relationship that he's been in love (I assume) with other guys. And if this turnsd out to be a problem, well I need to be sure it's not <b>my</b> problem!!Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07084142428197402563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-554171686671881662.post-37909399092074133932009-07-19T10:30:19.385+01:002009-07-19T10:30:19.385+01:00"The second is, if that Trust is betrayed: I’...<i>"The second is, if that Trust is betrayed: I’ll burn his house down. Which is something I have told him!"</i><br /><br />Ha ha very funny.<br /><br />I think you are wonderful, I would have to ask him about his engagement ring lol I'd need to know all the details. Your approach much better!<br /><br />Hugs,<br /><br />A xAntonyhttp://www.antonysimpson.com/noreply@blogger.com